The sampeah: how to greet people in Cambodia

In Cambodia, people greet each other with the sampeah, a gesture of respect where the palms are pressed together and raised with a slight bow of the head. You'll see it everywhere: at hotels, in shops, in pagodas and between friends and family. Knowing how and when to use it helps you make a good impression.

How to do it

Press your palms together, fingers pointing upwards, as if in prayer.
Raise your hands in front of your chest or face.
Bow your head slightly.
Say "sous-dey" (hello) or "aw-kun" (thank you), as appropriate.

Height matters

The height of your hands shows the level of respect:

Chest level: for people of similar age or status, such as friends or colleagues.
Mouth level: for older people or those of higher status.
Nose level: for parents, grandparents and teachers.
Forehead level: for the King and monks.
Higher, above the head: traditionally reserved for praying to the Buddha.

As a visitor, chest or chin height is fine for most situations. Use a slightly higher, deeper sampeah for elders and monks.

When to use it

When meeting someone or saying goodbye.
When saying thank you.
When receiving something from an elder.
When apologising.
In formal or religious settings.

Returning a sampeah

If someone greets you with a sampeah, it's polite to return it. Not returning one can seem dismissive. When someone younger or a service worker greets you, a smaller sampeah or a nod with a smile is appropriate.

Handshakes

In business and in cities, handshakes are common, especially between men. Many Cambodian women prefer the sampeah to a handshake. If you're unsure, wait and follow the other person's lead.

Monks

Greet monks with a respectful sampeah. Women should avoid touching monks or handing them items directly; place the item on a cloth or table in front of them instead.

Common mistakes

Using a sampeah while holding something in your hands; put it down first.
Making the gesture casually or as a joke.
Combining it with a handshake.