Khmer New Year etiquette for visitors
Visiting Cambodia during Khmer New Year? Here's how to behave at pagodas and family gatherings, join water fights politely and show respect during the holiday.
In this guide
Khmer New Year is a joyful time, and visitors are usually welcomed warmly. Knowing a few customs helps you join in respectfully and make the most of the experience.
Greetings
- Say "Sur sdey chnam thmey" (Happy New Year) to people you meet.
- Use the sampeah greeting, palms together, especially with elders and monks.
At the pagoda
- Dress modestly: cover shoulders and knees.
- Remove shoes before entering prayer halls.
- Speak quietly and don't interrupt ceremonies.
- Ask before taking photos of people, especially during blessings.
- If you want to make an offering, follow what local people do or ask a guide.
- Don't climb on sand stupas or decorations.
Visiting a family
If you're invited to a family's home:
- Bring a small gift, such as fruit, sweets or drinks.
- Remove your shoes before entering.
- Greet elders first.
- Accept food and drink graciously; try a little of everything.
- Join games if invited.
Water fights
- Expect to get wet, but don't target people who are clearly avoiding it, such as the elderly, monks or people dressed formally.
- Don't splash motorbike drivers; it can cause accidents.
- Keep water fights away from pagodas and ceremonies.
- If someone splashes you, smile; it's a blessing.
Giving
Khmer New Year is a time of generosity. Families give money to elders and donate to pagodas and the poor. Visitors can give to reputable organisations or pagoda donation boxes.
Behaviour
- Be patient with slower service and closures; staff are celebrating too.
- Avoid drinking heavily in public places.
- Respect quiet areas and residential neighbourhoods.
Photography
Celebrations are colourful and photogenic, but always ask before photographing people up close, especially children and elders.
Frequently asked questions
Can I use a water gun?
Yes, in the streets and at public celebrations. Keep it gentle, avoid people's faces, motorbike riders and anyone who is clearly not taking part.
What should I wear?
Light clothes that can get wet and dry quickly for the streets, and modest clothes covering shoulders and knees for pagodas. Avoid white or thin fabrics that become see-through when wet.
Should I give money to children during the holiday?
Giving money to children in families you know is part of tradition, but avoid giving money to children on the streets. Donating to a pagoda or a reputable organisation is a better way to share in the spirit of giving.